In Malaysia, I taught my kids how to bargain in the fabulous markets, selling everything from dried herbs to fake Burberry bags.

Should I have done that?

Should a child tourist really be asking an adult in a developing country to accept less money for their goods? - Dea

I think it depends on the childs understanding of the value of money, both in the UK and in the country they are visiting.

On the other hand, saving money is a great lesson to learn.

Bartaring is a great tool for general retail too, even for holidays. If you can get something cheaper elsewhere, mentioning it could get you a good discount.

i think bartering is fine

it should give kids confidence and they've got more chance of laughing at that great scene from Life of Brian when they're older.

If you can afford to pay the asking price then pay the asking price. Would you expect a visitor to this country to barter in our shops? I suspect not, so why should we?

It helps the economy and the society that you are visiting.

Personally, and generally having a good understanding of manufacturing costs, and marks ups, I'm not embarrassed to ask for a discount in the UK either.

My own salary does not come easy. I work very hard, and am generally underpaid. We have to make our family income go as far as possible. I'm not saying we wish anyone else to suffer as a consequence, but on holiday and at home I refuse to be ripped off and overcharged, (if I can help it).

Quite a lot depends on what you have chosen to buy.