One-parent Family Holidays And Breaks

A trip away as a lone parent and child/children can be a precious chance to reconnect and create new bonds as you share new experiences. If you plan it right, they also get instant playmates, while you get the opportunity to relax in congenial company. Best of all, as the sole adult making decisions, you’re free of the arguments or compromises that can plague many a traditional family holiday.

It’s not essential, but many single parents feel happiest using a travel company that caters well for single-parent families, especially if your child or children is/are sensitive to the issue of travelling without their other parent and you worry that being surrounded by two-parent families might make them feel self-conscious or sad. A significant percentage of Take the Family's customers are single parents and we have the experience to design the most appropriate trip for you.

Top Tips for Single-Parent Travel

Plan appropriately

As with all travel with kids, plan your holiday carefully, taking everyone’s needs into account. You may fancy flopping out with a book on the beach, or want to grab some time in a hotel spa at least once during the holiday, but this may be especially tricky on your own. So it’s essential to choose somewhere you know there’ll be other kids roughly the same age as your own, and where babysitting or some other childcare is on offer (check how long in advance babysitters need to be booked).

Be flexible

Accept that even the most carefully laid plans might not work out. For instance, on my first solo-parent trip to Corfu, I was banking on the hotel kids’ club to provide some respite for me and distraction for my then five-year-old – especially helpful when there isn’t anyone to bounce off and share the load. But when we got there, Joe recoiled at the prospect of so much as entering the mini-club. This was my mistake – I hadn’t thought to discuss or sell it to him in the most positive light beforehand. But it wasn’t a disaster – I focused all my patience and energy on teaching him to swim, and he was so exhausted that we’d retire to our room so he could have an afternoon nap and I could doze or read for a while. This in turn meant that he had the stamina to stay up later and watch the fire-eaters and jugglers with me and I got to relax over a drink. The moral of the story being that you can still have a great time by going with the flow.

Involve the kids in holiday decisions

Perhaps even more than with other kinds of holiday, it’s very beneficial to involve your child/children in choosing where to go or what to see as a way of getting them excited about their upcoming adventure (particularly if your child is nervous about travelling with one parent). Will the beach suffice, or would an activity holiday be more up your street – or a combination of both? Joe was sold on our single-parent Easter break in Tunisia by the prospect of seeing a Star Wars filming location and by spending a night camping in the desert, while I was able to grab some relaxation during the part of the trip spent in a hotel.

Complement rather than compete

One complication may be that your child is already committed to a trip with their other parent, in which case it’s a good idea to go for a completely different type of holiday. If they’ve just had a beach holiday overseas with Dad, think about a single-parent outdoor activity break.

Seek guidance

Don’t be afraid to bombard the company organising your travel with questions to make triple-sure the holiday is right for your family. On an escorted adventure holiday when you’ll be travelling in a small group, it’s particularly important to find out the age and gender of any kids already booked on the trip you’re considering to make sure that your child will fit in and hopefully make some friends.

Ask other parents for help

Once you’re there, don’t be afraid to ask other families to watch over your child around the pool while you need the bathroom or nip to get a drink. Most people are more than happy to oblige, but they won’t necessarily strike up a conversation for fear of straying into a sensitive area. We’ve met some lovely people around the poolside.

Get in touch with us to discuss your next family holiday requirements. We work with numerous operators and resorts who are well set up for single parent families.

By Judy Reynolds